In all truthfulness, loving someone who is scared of love can be hard, especially if it is as a result of breakups that are never easy or failure in finding love. But even if your heart has been broken many times, there is always hope for a new start.
Being scared to love again is really an understandable and common thing that happens after breakups. When you’re going through it, you’d not want to let someone else get close to your heart. You’d want to protect yourself, and it is a natural reaction to look at every potential partner who shows interest as a potential threat.
It takes time to be able to put yourself out there, letting down your guard and loving again. Also, for those with trust issues, it can seem difficult or even impossible to open their hearts to love again.
Below are some eye-opening quotes about being scared to love again to help you stay positive and open your heart towards new love because you can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one and living without love is not what you want to do.
How Do You Love Someone Who Is Scared of Love?
Loving someone who is scared of love can be tasking but you can reassure them that everything is okay—and it is; you just need to show them how.
Loving someone who is scared of love can be difficult but you just need to keep reminding them how much they are worth loving.
You love someone who’s scared of love when you are being patient and kind to them. You also let them know you will be there when they are ready to accept your love. Give them time, but don’t give up.
Quotes About Being Scared to Love Again
I’m scared to be in love with someone because I am afraid they will hurt me in the end and leave me crying alone on the bathroom floor. My love is meant for people who are worth my love in all ways.
1. I am scared to love again because I do not want my heart to be shattered again.
2. I am scared to fall in love again because my love is not cheap and I do not want that ugly experience ever again.
3. I know it’s hard to fall in love again for me because my heart broke into several pieces in the last breakup and I don’t want that.
4. I’m scared to fall in love, scared to fall fast, because every time I fall in love, it never lasts.
5. I’m scared to love because the moment I fall in love, it will be the moment I’ll have to watch where that relationship is leading.
6. I don’t want to close myself to love. I know it’s hard, but life is too short to spend alone.
7. I am so vexed right now because of what falling in love has put me through but I still have my heart opened to love.
8. I am scared to love, but If I do not try, real love might pass by.
9. I am always scared to let anyone into my heart because I have been hurt so badly in the past. But now I am ready for something special.
10. I’m scared to fall in love because I can’t fall for someone who doesn’t love me back.
11. I’m tired of feeling like shit because of someone else. I’m tired of crying over someone that’s not mine and never will be.
12. I never thought I’d find myself in a position to love someone again, but here I am, hoping you’ll prove me wrong.
13. I’m scared to fall in love for fear of being hurt again, but then I think about it and figure that maybe someone out there is worth the pain.
14. Sometimes, everything about falling in love scares me but I would try again if my partner proves to be different.
15. I don’t want to give my heart away and have it broken again because my heart and love are rare one to find.
16. I don’t want to love someone and then get hurt because they left me. So, I’m scared to fall in love.
17. I am scared to love you, but I just have to take the risk.
18.. I don’t think I’ll ever be the same person again as a result of heartbreak gotten from love, but maybe that’s okay. Maybe all of this pain will make me stronger and it is meant to teach me something.
19. I am scared of falling in love again because my heart sinks each time I remember how the relationship broke.
20. I am double scared of loving again because the heartbreak experience is hard for me and I can’t see myself crying again because of love.
21. I do not want to fall in love anymore because the last love episode got the best of me.
22. I don’t want to fall in love anymore because of how disappointed I am. I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.
23. I don’t want to be stupid and scared about being in love enough to settle for someone who won’t give me what I deserve.
24. Falling in love scares me but my heart is still open to a better person out there meant for me.
25. I am scared of falling in love again but I shouldn’t because not everyone will do the same.
26. I am scared to fall in love again but whenever I remember love is a risk, I just give it a try and I can never know how it will end.
27. Taking a chance and falling in love with someone is something I do not want to do because of my fear of falling in love
28. When you are scared to fall in love again, you just have to believe that your story will have a happy ending too and keep going on the journey toward finding true love.
29. I have to learn how to love again no matter how scared I am of falling in love again.
30. Being hurt in love is something that everyone experiences at one time or another. The strong learn from their mistakes, and others just give up.
31. I have to stop holding back on telling people how scared I am of falling in love because it happens at one time or the other to most people.
32. You have to stop being scared of falling in love again because once falling in love is right, you would forget you ever had it wrongly.
33. Just because we’re scared of love doesn’t mean we don’t want it. It means we should be careful some other time.
34. You have to realize that everyone makes mistakes, including yourself.
35. If you’ve been hurt in the past, fear for another love can feel like a thorn in the flesh.
36. Falling in love again is making me scared because I really cried my eyes out the last time I was in love.
37. Falling in love again is making me scared but I have to start opening up the door for new friends and relationships in my life.
38. I am scared of falling in love but I have to accept that I cannot change people.
39. I am scared of falling in love but I have to learn how to overlook people’s flaws.
40. I deserve to be loved by someone who has a heart full of love for me and no matter how scared of love I am.
41. I’m scared to let people in because they always seem to get bored and move on when things start to get real.
42. I am afraid of being in love. I am afraid of loving someone more than they love me because I know that if I do, I will get hurt.
43. I won’t let myself fall in love again because every time I do, the person leaves and my heart breaks a little bit more. It hurts too much to go through that over and over again.
44. I am scared to fall in love because once I fall, there will be no turning back and I won’t be able to handle that pain one more time.
45. Falling in love scares me because I don’t know how to fix my broken heart when it gets shattered into a million pieces again.
46. Love is scary: it changes; it can go away. That’s the part of the risk. You have to be strong and courageous and know that you’re going to survive.
47. We’re afraid of being hurt the same way again, and we’re afraid that someone else won’t accept us for who we really are.
48. I am scared to fall in love again. I am scared that I will never find someone who treats me right. I am scared that I will spend the rest of my life alone.
49. I am scared to love again because I have been shattered inwardly and I need to heal first.
50. I have loved people and been let down so many times which has made me scared to love again.
51. I refuse to let what happened to me concerning love make me bitter. I still completely believe in love and I’m open to anything that will happen to me.
52. It feels bad to love again after being hurt but I don’t mind giving love a chance again because I want to share my heart with someone worth it.
53. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance.
54. You have to trust that the dots of love will somehow connect in your future. The person who made you scared of love will experience the same.
55. You’re not scared of being hurt again, you’re just afraid of not being able to survive it. That’s okay, it’s a natural reaction. You survived before and you can survive again.
56. The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be no matter how love has shattered your heart.
57. It’s tough to let go of that fear since getting hurt is never a nice experience.
58. Loving again is difficult to do with all the times I was hurt and treated badly.
59. I am scared to love again, but if it is you who will make me feel loved, I guess I’ll give it a try.
60. I’m so scared of being hurt again; maybe it’s better to stay single forever.
61. I’m scared to be left behind. That is why I always push people away from me.
62. I am scared to love again because my heart might not be able to handle another heartbreak.
63. Being hurt by someone you truly care about leaves a hole in your heart that’s so much deeper than you can imagine. Love is never supposed to hurt. Love is supposed to heal, to be your haven from misery, to make living worthwhile.
64. It’s sad when someone you know you two were in love with becomes someone you knew.
65. I’ll open up my heart and let you in, even though that terrifies me because you are worth it.
66. There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.
67. You may be scared to love again, but your future partner will be worth every second of your wait.
68. Scared of losing you, scared of missing out, scared of being rejected, and scared that I won’t get the chance to show you how amazing we would be together.
69. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.
70. I’m tired of feeling like I’ll never find the person who wants to love me just as much as I want them.
71. I’m tired of worrying about losing you, and when it happens, it hurts worse than the last time we said goodbye taking a break fro love.
72. I don’t want to fall in love with anyone, not right now. Not until I find the right person to love me back, who appreciates all my hard work to make them happy and keep them smiling every day.
73. I’m scared to fall in love. I can’t fall for someone who doesn’t love me back. I’m tired of feeling like shit because of someone else. I’m tired of crying over someone that’s not mine and never will be.
74. I don’t want to be sad all the time, I just want to be happy and enjoy my life without worrying about some other person.
75. I just want someone who will love me unconditionally and I’ll do the same for them. I just want someone who will treat me right. Someone who will make my heart flutter and smile so big my cheeks hurt.
76. It sucks when one person is always the first one to text and makes an effort, while the other just seems so distant and uninterested in putting in any effort at all.
77. I’ve given up on you because you aren’t ready for me. You aren’t ready for our relationship, and I can’t wait around forever for you to realize that I am worth fighting for.
78. Maybe this break up that destroyed my love is just for me to learn some lessons about love.
79. I can’t fall for someone who doesn’t love me back. I’m tired of feeling like shit because of someone else. I’m tired of crying over someone that’s not mine and never will be.
80. I’ve been hurt so many times, and I don’t want to be hurt anymore. The last time he broke my heart into a million pieces, and I couldn’t even put it back together.
81. I can’t do this anymore, it hurts too much. I need to focus on myself and my life and try to forget about you even though you are never far from my mind.
82. I want to love, but I want it to be easy, not painful, and so loving an experience.
83. It hurts so bad, and I don’t know how much more I can take before I actually die from a broken heart.
84. It’s my turn, to be honest. I’m scared of love because it hurts when you put in your all into love and get nothing in return.
85. I’m scared of being vulnerable. I’m scared of someone getting close, seeing my deepest darkest secrets and not loving me anymore because of it.
86. I’m scared that the one person who has my heart is going to break it into a thousand pieces or let some other person steal it away from me.
87. I’m scared that I’ll never be able to give my heart to someone again without them taking advantage of it and myself.
88. I’m afraid of not being able to trust someone enough to tell them everything. I’m afraid that they will walk away from me after they know the truth.
89. Every relationship I have ever been in has ended the same way, with a big fight and then never talking again. I don’t know how to let someone in without ending up getting hurt.
90. Every time you try to get close to me, I push you away because I am terrified that you will leave. I know that you love me, but it is hard for me to believe sometimes.
91. I don’t know how to let someone in anymore. I don’t know how to exhaust my heart and not think about the possibility that they will take it from me and leave me with nothing in return but pain.
92. I don’t know how to trust someone. I don’t know how to jump into something without a parachute and hold onto the person beside me, hoping they won’t let go.
93. I don’t know how to be okay again. I don’t know how to fall in love again when all I can do is sit here and stare at my past mistakes, thinking about what could have been and what should have been if I had only made a different decision or said something different or done everything differently.
94. I’m scared that when you see the real me, you won’t like what you see. I’m afraid that if I let you in, it will only lead to heartbreak and rejection.
95. This is why I can’t open up to you straight away because love has not treated me nicely in any way.
96. I want to be with someone who is in love with me and listens to my secrets rather than judging them
97. I’m scared that this is all we are ever going to be — safely hidden behind our masks of lies and deceptions. I’m scared that there is no such thing as true love and that it is only a fairytale.
98. I’m scared of being lonely. But most importantly, I am terrified of being in a relationship that lacks honesty and transparency.
99. I’m scared of putting myself out there again, only to be hurt. I’m scared of falling for someone and having them leave.
100. I’ve been hurt too many times by people who promised to love me forever but left when they found out the truth about me.
101. I’m just so tired of my heart breaking over and over again by the same person.
102. I’m tired of crying myself to sleep every night when they say they love me but can’t be with me.
103. I’m scared to share my heart because every single time I do, it gets broken. I’m scared to be in love with someone because I am afraid they will hurt me in the end and leave me crying alone on the bathroom floor.
Loving another person requires the confidence to open yourself up and expose your flaws and weaknesses. It’s terrifying and exhilarating all at once. The best way to fight fear is to confront it head-on by giving love another chance; don’t let past heartbreak stop you from trying again. These quotes expressing how scared you are of being in love will let you in on the different areas of how being scared of not opening yourself to love can make one be.
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